As a difference-affirming psychotherapist, I welcome you in all your particulars and identifiers.
The 'why' behind seeking therapy is unique and contains multitudes. Underneath the specifics, I might use the word disconnection - a disconnection from self, relationships, and/or the wider-world you.
I work from a trauma-informed, non-pathologizing lens. I work from the perspective that you - and all that you bring - are not a problem to be solved. The pain you bring can be used as a site of potential. I view what you bring as information to be seen, held, and collaboratively looked at.